How to work fewer evenings and weekends in finance - a blog featuring life and leadership coach, Allison Marie Doner.

How to Work Fewer Evenings and Weekends in Finance

July 19, 202610 min read

If you're constantly telling yourself, "Just one more thing and then I'll log off," only to look up and realize it's 9:00 p.m. again, you're not alone.

For many finance professionals, evenings and weekends slowly become an extension of the workday/work week. Even when you're physically home, your mind is still at work… thinking through problems, replaying conversations, or wondering what you forgot to do.

The work never seems finished, and it can feel like everyone else has somehow figured out how to keep up while you're constantly trying to catch your breath.

It's easy to assume this is simply the price of success. After all, demanding finance careers have always involved hard work. Maybe you even tell yourself that if you were faster, more organized, or better at managing everything, you wouldn't need to keep working after hours.

But here's what I've learned after more than 20 years in finance.

Working evenings and weekends usually isn't the problem. It's the outcome.

Once you understand what's creating that outcome, you can begin changing it.

It's often the result of dozens of small decisions, habits, and assumptions that shape how you work every day.

Many finance professionals are still operating according to the beliefs that helped them become successful earlier in their careers.

Throughout our careers, we're rewarded for being dependable. We say yes. We solve problems. We respond quickly. We become the person people can count on.

Those habits often help us earn promotions.

But as our responsibilities grow, those same habits can become the very thing keeping us stuck.

The good news is that working fewer evenings and weekends doesn't require caring less about your career or lowering your standards. It means becoming more intentional about how you lead yourself and your work.

When you do, you start getting your evenings and weekends back, at least much more often. You enjoy your time away from work again. You feel calmer, more present, and more in control instead of constantly reacting to whatever lands in front of you. And perhaps most importantly, you start believing that the way you're working is sustainable instead of wondering whether this is what success is supposed to feel like.

A sustainable career doesn't happen by default. It's something you intentionally design.

Here are the three strategies I'll cover:


Strategy 1: Get Clear on What You’re Actually Responsible For

As your career progresses, your responsibilities naturally expand.

But many finance professionals also continue to carry work that no longer belongs to them or that was never really theirs in the first place.

Sometimes it's because expectations were never clarified.

Sometimes it's because you've always done it that way.

Sometimes it's because you're trying to be helpful.

And sometimes it's because no one has stopped to ask whether you're still the right person to be doing it, including you.

Over time, those small assumptions accumulate until your role feels much bigger than the role you’re actually responsible for doing.

You might find yourself attending meetings because you've always attended them. Reviewing every analysis before it goes out. Responding to questions your team could answer. Becoming involved in decisions simply because everyone is used to coming to you.

By the end of the day, you've been incredibly busy, but much of your time has been spent on work that didn't require your unique expertise.

The result?

The work that only you can do gets pushed into the evening or the weekend.

One of the most valuable things you can do is step back and ask:

  • What outcomes am I truly accountable for?

  • Where do I create the greatest value?

  • Which responsibilities genuinely require my involvement?

  • What expectations have I assumed instead of clarified?

In my experience, many finance professionals don't actually have a workload problem.

They have a clarity problem.

Once you're clear about what you're actually responsible for (and equally important, what you're not), you can make better decisions about where to invest your time and energy.

This is an example of what we do together in my coaching program. We will get crystal clear on what success actually looks like in your role. From there, we question assumptions, clarify expectations, and identify where you're spending time out of habit rather than intention. That clarity makes it much easier to focus on the work that creates the greatest impact instead of feeling pulled in every direction.

Once you're clear about what actually belongs to your role, the next challenge is making sure those responsibilities, not everyone else's priorities, shape how you spend most of your day.


Strategy 2: Decide What Deserves Your Time

One of the biggest reasons work spills into evenings and weekends isn't because there is too much of it.

It's because other people's priorities are constantly deciding what you work on.

Emails arrive. Messages pop up. Someone asks for "just a quick favour." A meeting runs long. Before you know it, the work that actually mattered gets pushed into the evening or weekend because your day was spent reacting.

Maybe you planned to spend the morning reviewing your team's month-end analysis before tomorrow's executive meeting. Instead, you answered emails, joined two meetings that weren't essential, helped resolve a reporting issue, approved journal entries, and responded to a series of "quick questions."

By 4:30, you realize you still haven't touched the one piece of work that actually required your attention and expertise. So you stay late… not because you were unproductive, but because the most important work never stood a chance.

In my experience, this is not a time management problem, so the solution isn’t about working faster.

It's a decision-making problem.

The solution is becoming more discerning about where you spend your time.

Every day, you're making hundreds of decisions about where your attention goes. The challenge is that if you don't make those decisions intentionally, other people's priorities will make them for you.

One simple practice that can make a remarkable difference: deciding what deserves your attention before your day starts deciding for you.

Start each day by deciding what truly deserves your attention before everyone else starts competing for it. Identify the work that will move the biggest priorities forward and protect time to focus on it.

That also means getting comfortable making decisions in real time throughout the day. Not every request deserves an immediate yes. Not every email deserves an instant response. Not every task deserves the same level of effort.

Learning to prioritize, create space for deep work, and triage new requests as they come in dramatically changes how much unfinished work follows you home.

The goal isn't to get more done. It's to make sure the right work gets done during the workday instead of becoming tonight's or this weekend's work.

We spend time building these skills in our work together in coaching. We create realistic weekly plans, identify what repeatedly pulls you away from those plans, and strengthen your ability to distinguish between what truly matters and what is noise. Rather than trying to do everything, you learn how to consistently focus on the work that creates the greatest impact.

Even with better priorities, lasting change doesn't come from one productive day. It comes from intentionally building a way of working you can sustain.


Strategy 3: Build a Way of Working You Can Sustain

Many finance professionals assume the way they've always worked is just the way the profession works.

Late nights are normal. Weekend work is expected. Being constantly busy means you're doing it right.

After a while, those ideas stop feeling like assumptions. They start feeling like facts.

But one of the first things I ask coaching clients isn't:

"How can we make you more productive?"

It's:

"What do you actually want your work and your life to look like?"

Because it's surprisingly difficult to build a sustainable career if you've never stopped to define what "sustainable" means for you.

Is it:

Simply enjoying a weekend without thinking about Monday?

Getting back to training three days a week?

Protecting family dinners some evenings?

Leaving work feeling accomplished and "done for the day" instead of replaying the day in your head?

Being fully engaged during quarter-end but not feeling like your life disappears for weeks at a time four times a year?

There isn't one right answer.

But until you decide what you're trying to create, it's easy to continue working the way you've always worked - because that's what you’ve always done or what everyone around you seems to be doing.

That's why I encourage clients to experiment instead of striving for perfection.

To start with one small change. Something like:

  • protecting one hour for uninterrupted strategic work each morning

  • delegating one recurring task you've been holding onto

  • clarifying one expectation instead of making an assumption

  • leaving on time one evening this week and noticing what actually happens.

Small experiments have a way of creating much bigger changes than we expect.

After each one, ask yourself:

  • What worked?

  • What didn't?

  • What do I want to try differently next week?

That's exactly how we approach coaching. Together, we test small changes, evaluate what's working, and make adjustments over time.

That's how sustainable change happens.

Through continually evaluating, adjusting, and intentionally designing a way of working that supports both your performance at work and the rest of your life.

The problem is rarely just the work itself.

The real challenge is how we respond to the work. The assumptions we make. The habits we develop. The responsibilities we continue carrying long after our role has changed.

That's why I don't believe the answer is simply becoming more efficient.

I believe it's becoming more intentional.


"That Sounds Great…But My Role Is Different."

You might be thinking, "This all sounds good, but my role is different. My workload really does require evenings and weekends."

Sometimes that's true.

I've lived quarter-end, year-end, acquisitions, dispositions, audits, board meetings, and unexpected issues. I know there will always be seasons that require more of you at work.

But if evenings and weekends have become your normal operating model week after week, month after month, and it’s no longer the exception, it's worth getting curious about why.

The goal isn't to eliminate every late night.

The goal is to make sure those late nights and weekends happen because the work genuinely requires them, not because your current way of working does.

That's an important distinction.

Because when you understand what's really driving the extra hours, you gain something incredibly valuable: choices.


You Have More Control Than You Think

Working fewer evenings and weekends isn't about working less.

It's about working differently.

By deciding what success in your role actually looks like, what deserves your attention before others do, and intentionally building a more sustainable way of working, you create more space for both excellent performance at work and a life outside the office.

Imagine finishing your workday knowing the important work was actually done.

Imagine enjoying a Saturday without constantly thinking about Monday.

Imagine feeling present with the people who matter most instead of mentally carrying work everywhere you go.

Those changes don't happen overnight, but they absolutely can happen.


A Simple Place to Start

Working fewer evenings and weekends doesn't happen all at once. If you're ready to take back a little more control over your time, start with my free planning practice guide.

Inside, my simple 15-minute planning practice helps you take practical first steps toward:

✔️ working with greater intention
✔️ reducing unnecessary after-hours work,
✔️ creating more space for the parts of your life you don’t want your career to crowd out

>> Click here to get the free planning practice guide >>

You don't have to change everything at once.

You just have to start.


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